im a 15 yr old girl who is really interested in learning to play rugby but l dont know where to go to learn without looking stupid

is l not that cute

l had that problem in high school, we had to start our own team. Research to see if any high schools in ur area have clubs, & get in contact, l am sure they'd let u join. You can always start ur own, but that is a hard task, so l definitely recommend finding out about surrounding schools & if they have a club.

Learning first hand is always best, no better way than to be there & learning hands on u know?
But in the meantime u can always research or pick up a copy of 'Rugby for Dummies'

We give it to our new people when they join for them to read & pass around, seriously, it is quite helpful.

Good Luck! Rugby is a gift from the gods.

chicagorugby.com
Chicago has a lot of great men is teams, not sure about women is or HS women is though.